Aw, who is it Whisper? I'm not sure if I've noticed them because I haven't gotten the chance to read through all the messages. I understand how you feel though Also, I apologize for not being on this thread often, I've been very busy with school. I do like our secret hideout
Happyyyyyyyyyy that you like it here!
As for the intruder, here is whom I mean.
I'll send a screenshot.
This one in the middle whose level is 1541 and profile picture is a monkey. This is not a Japanese learning thread. This is a family thread and they just come inside our place/home with no permission or consent... Again, I swear to God I'm not being evil or mean but this is a private place and anyone who wants to come in must ask for it.
It's so nice of them to help people, but this is our planet or village or garden or home, call it anything you want, it's our place. This is not polite at all and shows no respect to the residents of this place, especially me... I don't tolerate lack of respect to me. I asked them once "who is that?", and got no answer. This is no less than impolite.
Ah, I see. I know ポールおじちゃん, they add comments on various threads from time to time. I'm sure they don't mean any harm, but I can see how it comes across as impolite
Seeji chan, are you sure no one has ever told you that you are too sweet and cute?! Come on! Tears are about to flow out of my eyes because of your sweetness and cuteness that absolutely know no end, and if others were to see the stray tears and asked about the reason, I'd look as clueless as Eren in the first episode of Attack on titans, when Mikasa asked him why he was crying. But then I'd get back with my thoughts to your cuteness and sweetness, and realise the true trigger...
Oh God! Jesus! All prophets sent by God! Help meeeeeeeeeee! My son is soooooooo cuuuuuuuute and sweeeeeeeeeeeet!
Ah, I see. I know ポールおじちゃん, they add comments on various threads from time to time. I'm sure they don't mean any harm, but I can see how it comes across as impolite
Their helping others have nothing to do with me there in that thread. It is not about harm, rather lack of politeness, respect and Etiquette. It's not a Japanese learning thread!!! It's our village/garden/home!!!! Not a place for teaching nor learning!!!!!
"Excuse me! May I take part/come in... etc?"
OR
You have no job in there!
This is me. I highly value all sorts of respect rules.
I deleted a comment that was not as constructive or welcoming as it should have been. I have no wish to engage in personal back-and-forth, but the community on renshuu is important to me and I object to attempts to divide it. Many of the friends I have met on renshuu are young, isolated, and vulnerable. They are, in my estimation, particularly susceptible to uncritical praise. I worry about them and want to try to protect them.
I deleted a comment that was not as constructive or welcoming as it should have been. I have no wish to engage in personal back-and-forth, but the community on renshuu is important to me and I object to attempts to divide it. Many of the friends I have met on renshuu are young, isolated, and vulnerable. They are, in my estimation, particularly susceptible to uncritical praise. I worry about them and want to try to protect them.
"Excuse me! May I take part/come in... etc?"
This is neither dividing nor expelling, rather respect to other people's spaces, which is already a clear and understandable principle.
IN ADDITION, It's advisable to provide clearer responses. I have no idea, which comment has been deleted NOR whom has been meant above regarding the need for protection.
The thread there is called "friends" and these friends all love each other and protect each other. No threats from outer monsters or vampires. No worries!
I think this is all a misunderstanding, and I also think it won't be a problem in the future now, so could both sides respect each other's opinions and move on? I know you've got a lot going on in your life Whisper, and worrying about this isn't worth the energy, okay?
I think this is all a misunderstanding, and I also think it won't be a problem in the future now, so could both sides respect each other's opinions and move on? I know you've got a lot going on in your life Whisper, and worrying about this isn't worth the energy, okay?
I have no idea what's going on, but this sounds like a good idea!
1. This thread is wildly off-topic. While it makes me happy to see so many people having conversations in the forums on renshuu, it is somewhat troublesome that these "friend conversations" (for lack of a better term) are spread out to unrelated topics.
2. This is a "public" forum (not public in the sense that anyone can post to it - they must be in renshuu, but public in that it is not private or restricted to certain people within the renshuu community. Trying to claim that a certain thread is private, "family", or for certain users only goes completely against what we are trying to encourage and nurture here at renshuu. Everyone is allowed and *welcome* to post everywhere, as long as the content matches the forum area. If comments that try to shut others out keep coming up, those users may lose the ability to post in these forums and in the other community areas on renshuu.
3. We do *not* talk about other members of the renshuu community. Please see point 2. If you'd like to have a conversation with someone privately, I recommend the DM feature on discord. Again, consider this a warning. Both this and #2 go against the first rule of the forums (listed below).
I deleted a comment that was not as constructive or welcoming as it should have been. I have no wish to engage in personal back-and-forth, but the community on renshuu is important to me and I object to attempts to divide it. Many of the friends I have met on renshuu are young, isolated, and vulnerable. They are, in my estimation, particularly susceptible to uncritical praise. I worry about them and want to try to protect them.
(Just to clarify, I understood nothing of the message that was intended to be conveyed up there, but that's not the point why I'm here, so I don't care about that now)
I'd like to apologise for my inappropriate messages. They were out of extreme lack of knowledge about forums. Renshuu forums are only the second time I decided to be a member of. I discussed with my brother, who is a tech pro, and he explained to me in detail how it goes in forums. You are welcome in any thread you wanna post in. It is your right and everyone's here on Renshuu, and I shall not deprive anyone from it.
I'm sorry for not making this apology earlier, which was because of my sickness and severe pain and other life issues that made me forget.
I'm not sure if you still get alerts from this thread, but I have no other options. I see you in other threads but it would be off topic if I posted this in any of them. I hope you see this message.
Also, I apologize for not being on this thread often, I've been very busy with school. I do like our secret hideout 
